Love before marriage in Islam
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Love before marriage in Islam |
Love before marriage in Islam
Love is feeling and
the meanings make of human happy
The finest kind of love is love in God, Love in God is a doctrine that must
settle in our minds, But in our theme this We will talk, God willing About love
between men and women before marriage, Love is a feeling, God Put it in the
heart of man The direction of a certain person, It is not the choice of man,
You find a man who loves a woman Or woman loves a man, This love is not held
accountable by man As long as this love remains in the heart, But if love show
to deeds Here is divided into two parts:
If love appears in
halal In the sense that the man asked to
marry a woman Or marry her, If it appears in halaal ,God will give him a
reward.
If this love
appears in haraam In other words, the man established a relationship with the
woman And he does not marry her, then he is guilty of this act, He committed a
sin.
The relationship before marriage
Lead the relationship before marriage to the consequences,
including:
If a man marries a
woman ,They had a relationship before their marriage This leads to mistrust
between spouses So that the man doubts the woman It may work another
relationship with another man As I did with him before ,vice versa , So the
couple must Not to establish a relationship before marriage.
May lead the
relationship before marriage To commit adultery This work does not love God at
all.
Advice
It is better to be married for love Because it will most
likely be a successful marriage, But without a relationship that God does not
like, Because as we talked about the
relationship before marriage Vandalizing houses, Which are destroying homes If
you love someone and wish to be yours in marriage, Then you have to the du'aa,
Because the du'aa 'is loved by Allaah, If this person is yours God has
responded to your supplication, If this person is not yours, know that it is good for you, God will give
you the reward of supplication.
Love is not just a feeling but a behavior, If the behavior
is preceded by will, Means choice (I who chose this route, I who chose this
woman, He did not impose it Ali anyone) So I must go to strengthen my choice.
How did the Prophet love his wife?
The Messenger of
Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) loved his wife Khadija a lot
In the late-old did not forget Khadija, Aisha was jealous of Khadija although
she died, Asked the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him from the people you love?
He
replied, "Aisha" But he is true love.
A love story ended in disaster
There was a girl in a relationship with a young man, They were in
dating, So the young man took the girl from the most expensive possessions
which her virginity, She was asking him,
When will we get married? He would answer that he would marry her after a
while, This was his answer to every question Because the purpose of this
relationship satisfies his desire only, So the girl felt bored, I asked him to
separation and wanted to give it up because she knew that he wanted to satisfy
his desires only, So it is threatening to publish images, She said to him do
what you want, So the young man published pictures, The disaster was that the
girl's father saw her pictures He was very angry, The girl fled from the house
and went to that young man She killed the young man Then she surrendered
herself to the police.
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